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Little wonder that this generation of Mrs Robinsons is proving so alluringly sexy and sophisticated that bedazzled young boys are seemingly becoming their willing slaves. Because with the rise of the potency of middle-aged women comes an equal and opposite reaction: the infantilisation of men. One of the fundamental tenets of evolution — men being attracted to younger women because they are fertile and women being drawn to older, higher-status males who are in a better position to provide for offspring — is slowly being eroded.
The toyboy trend isn’t just reserved for celebrities, either. Fast approaching 60 and with a seemingly unquenchable thirst for men 30 years (or more) her junior, Madonna never shies away from an opportunity to display her passion for men who could easily be her sons.Indeed, the very fact that middle-aged women are more likely to have a high status can drive them to seek out younger partners.According to dating coach and behavioural psychologist Jo Hemmings, living in a youth-driven world puts new pressures on women.‘There’s a constant need to reinvent themselves, to ensure they’re being current and still relevant,’ says Hemmings.‘And one way to get this validation — to hold onto their prime and to prove they’re still desirable — is to be seen with someone much younger.’This is not to suggest, says Hemmings, that the likes of Madonna are acting cynically in their choice of lovers.It puts those ‘real men’ who still hold doors for women and wouldn’t dream of their date paying the bill under threat as never before.
Meanwhile, attractive younger males, who are more likely to fit in with their super-successful female partner’s schedule than an equal player with his own established work patterns and responsibilities, will be more sought after in the middle-aged dating marketplace.Indeed, she revels in it, telling Harper’s Bazaar magazine recently: ‘I have lovers who are three decades younger than me.